Most Tibetans
will tell you that despite the lack of religious institutions and
buildings, practicing
Buddhism is the same no matter where you are. But many of them will
admit that struggling to make a living as an immigrant leaves little
time for prayers and prostrations. Only a handful of the thousands
of Tibetan refugees living in New York City ever attend any of New
York's 40-odd Buddhist centers, which are mostly frequented by Westerners
interested in learning meditation.
Most of the
centers were founded to teach Buddhism to people who know little
about it and are therefore more appropriate for spiritually curious
Westerners, said Lobsang Tenpa, a Buddhist monk who lives in Brooklyn.
"Tibetans,
because they grow up in a Buddhist culture, already have a strong
foundation in the Buddhist teachings," he said.
Some Tibetans
are wary of the numerous Buddhist centers in America because they
feel the Tibetan monks who teach there aren't really qualified teachers,
said Tenzin Gelek of the Trace Foundation for Tibetan Development.
In Tibet, a monk would have to earn a khenpo or geshe degree, a
doctoral degree in Buddhist philosophy that takes roughly 20 years
to complete, in order to be considered a legitimate teacher. In
the West, however, such rules do not apply, Gelek said.
"People
are suspicious when lamas they've never heard of are suddenly gain
a reputation as a high teacher in the West," Gelek said.
Buddhist lamas
who immigrate to America often end up teaching Buddhism to Westerners
who can help fund their monasteries in India and Nepal rather than
tending to the Tibetan community. Gelek said many Tibetans feel
resentful when they see lamas becoming rich off their Western patrons
while Tibetan refugees living in settlements in India are still
struggling to meet basic needs. The fact that many dharma centers
in the West charge for teachings alienates many Tibetans, who see
putting a price on religion as anathema.
"Tibetans
still can't get used to the idea of paying money for religious teachings,"
he said.
As a result,
the Western Buddhists and the Tibetans rarely attend the same centers
or teachings, unless the Dalai Lama or other high lamas visit.
"For many
Tibetans, the whole question of religion has become problematic,
because they become more secular sometimes and they don't experience
their own religion in the same way Westerners do. Westerners have
very selective ideas about Tibetan religion and think that Buddhism
is all about meditation," Barnett, lecturer at Columbia University
said.
Perhaps another
reason that most Tibetans in New York do not follow a particular
lama or join one of the many Buddhist centers is that the structure
of Tibetan Buddhism is changing in response to the pressure to unify
the religious community in exile.
"Within
Tibet, religion was very atomized," Barnett said. "There
wasn't this sense of an overarching religious structure like the
Catholic church."
The concept
of a unified Buddhism under a single hierarchy headed by the Dalai
Lama is fairly recent, Barnett said, and was in part constructed
to strengthen the religious unity of exiled Tibetans.
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Monk
drumming during a ritual for Tibetan protector dieties at
PS1 in Queens.
PHOTO: Alexandra Alter
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Barnett explained
that in Tibet, people traditionally related to their own lama, who
came from their own region or was connected to their family, whereas
in exile Tibetans have rallied behind the Dalai Lama, who they collectively
regard as their leader with few exceptions. Under the new model
of a unified Buddhist hierarchy, most Tibetans in America will attend
the Dalai Lama's teachings when he visits, but do not maintain a
relationship with another lama.
However, now
that so many Tibetans are born and raised in secular societies,
their grounding in Buddhism may be slipping. Second generation refugees
may come to rely on Western Buddhist teachers and institutions for
guidance.
Yangchen Lama
attended a Christian missionary school in north India where she
grew up and consequently came to know more about Christianity than
her native Buddhist religion, she said. But here in New York, she
has reconnected with her Buddhist roots by reading dharma books
in English and attending meditation retreats lead by prominent Western
Buddhist teachers like Sharon Salzberg and Robert
Thurman.
For Lama, coming
to Buddhism in the West has given her an understanding of essential
Buddhist teachings than she might have gained practing her religion
growing up.

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